re-exec on SIGHUP, picking up configuration file changes

re-exec on SIGHUP, picking up configuration file changes

my first approach was to just re-read the config, but could not make
the idle/playlist loop  behave. it gets stuck with responses getting
lost and eventually is disconnected my MPD due to timeout

re-exec works, but there is a (very small) chance of missing a database
update between disconnection and re-connection to MPD.